"Maybe the wolf is in love with the moon, and each month it cries for a love it will never touch.."
-Anonymous-
I haven't blogged anything lately because I've been busy with my summer classes so I thought it was due time for me to post something for my readers. These past two weeks I've been contemplating what I should write about, what might interest you all, and what overall would just be fun to talk about. I chose to talk about the qualities of a good companion, and also to vent about my current situation with someone I'm really into.
Honestly everyone has a particular idea of who they see themselves with, but I think there are a few qualities that should be universal when you are choosing your mate:
1. Respectful
2. Honest
3. Ambition
Too me these are basic like honestly everyone should practice these, but so few people do in reality. I think a great companion is someone who motivates you, supports you and pushes you. In a relationship you're supposed to better each other, otherwise what exactly is the point? A lot of people get stuck in these relationships where it's either completely one-sided or they get into a situation where they are getting held back by the person they are with. That should never have to be the case. Always ask questions before you get into a relationship. No you won't get them all answered, but ask the ones that are most important to you, so you can at least know what you are getting yourself into.
You could also be in that situation where you truly love somebody, but they don't love you or they don't know how to love you. In my opinion that fucking sucks sometimes. But you have to learn to fall back. Especially if you're younger and just getting into the dating scene, it's okay to move on. Sometimes it's for the best. How do you move on? Well shit.... It's different for everyone but honestly when you fall back you should fall back alone. Meaning don't go searching for someone else to date, just take care of you. Cause often when relationships don't work out, it's destiny telling you that at that time you didn't need to be in one.
I mean I've only had one boyfriend in my lifetime no lie, and it ended because I had no business being in one. I wasn't ready. I learned rushing into things aren't beneficial for either person. I mean honestly I was like 16 I didn't even really like the guy, I just liked the fact that he liked me.
But when you really find your soulmate, it's usually the one you didn't go looking for, and sometimes even someone you've crossed paths with before.
Another word of advice, allow your heart to hurt sometimes. Be open to new experiences, let people in, but in a smart way. Because avoidance and isolation won't allow you to prosper.
I Hope This Helped For All You Lovely People...
Questions, Comments, Concerns, Suggestions, Randoms are welcome.... Just "Respect The Technique!"
2. Honest
3. Ambition
Too me these are basic like honestly everyone should practice these, but so few people do in reality. I think a great companion is someone who motivates you, supports you and pushes you. In a relationship you're supposed to better each other, otherwise what exactly is the point? A lot of people get stuck in these relationships where it's either completely one-sided or they get into a situation where they are getting held back by the person they are with. That should never have to be the case. Always ask questions before you get into a relationship. No you won't get them all answered, but ask the ones that are most important to you, so you can at least know what you are getting yourself into.
You could also be in that situation where you truly love somebody, but they don't love you or they don't know how to love you. In my opinion that fucking sucks sometimes. But you have to learn to fall back. Especially if you're younger and just getting into the dating scene, it's okay to move on. Sometimes it's for the best. How do you move on? Well shit.... It's different for everyone but honestly when you fall back you should fall back alone. Meaning don't go searching for someone else to date, just take care of you. Cause often when relationships don't work out, it's destiny telling you that at that time you didn't need to be in one.
I mean I've only had one boyfriend in my lifetime no lie, and it ended because I had no business being in one. I wasn't ready. I learned rushing into things aren't beneficial for either person. I mean honestly I was like 16 I didn't even really like the guy, I just liked the fact that he liked me.
But when you really find your soulmate, it's usually the one you didn't go looking for, and sometimes even someone you've crossed paths with before.
Another word of advice, allow your heart to hurt sometimes. Be open to new experiences, let people in, but in a smart way. Because avoidance and isolation won't allow you to prosper.
I Hope This Helped For All You Lovely People...
Questions, Comments, Concerns, Suggestions, Randoms are welcome.... Just "Respect The Technique!"
